a.k.a. V.J.

Old Man Stuff


Irresolute

I am writing this on the first day of 2025. I kicked off the year with a couple of my New Year’s Day rituals. First, Jen and I completed a short “First Day” nature hike at Sterling Nature Center. We tromped through drizzle and high wind gusts, guided by a naturalist. The weather could have been better, but I enjoy a good walk in the woods in all but the worst conditions. As an added bonus, the naturalist pointed out some interesting small details about the landscape that I never would have noticed or known to look for on my own.

At the beginning of the trail, when the hike seemed like a fun lark.
In the car after the hike, with the heat blasting and marveling that the January wind off Lake Ontario didn’t actually blow my face off.

After working up an appetite, I came home and devoured some black-eyed peas. When I was growing up, my father insisted that everyone in the house should eat black-eyed peas every New Year’s Day to ensure good fortune in the coming year. I am not normally inclined to superstition, and I don’t really like black-eyed peas, but I’ve enjoyed generally good luck my whole life, so I faithfully continue that tradition.

This year’s pot of good fortune.

I also kicked off this year’s reading initiative by starting James Clavell’s Shōgun. Last year, I challenged myself to read something classic every day. With the exception of maybe three or four days, I did just that. It was a very rewarding experience that I am sure to write about in this space sometime soon. This year, I still plan to read every day, but I’m opening things up to include non-classics. (With all due respect to Mr. Clavell, I don’t think Shōgun has achieved classic status…at least not yet.) My Goodreads goal for the year is 30 books — a bit modest given that I completed 68 in 2024 — but I don’t want to the pursuit of an ambitious, arbitrary goal to get in the way of actually enjoying the books.

Aside from Goodreads, I don’t have any concrete goals for the year. I certainly haven’t made any New Year’s resolutions, as I have a number of philosophical and practical objections to the concept of such resolutions. Sure, I know there is always something about myself that could be improved. There are many things I could do better. On the other hand, I generally like where I’m at in life right now. I have everything I need. Rather than make this a day of vows to change something (especially when I know it probably won’t happen), I choose to focus on being grateful for everything right in life that I’d like to continue, fate willing, through 2025. And so, I have.

Happy New Year.



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Researcher. Marketer. Teacher. Father of adult children and dogs. 20th Century holdover. Central New York native. Long-suffering Buffalo Bills fan. History nerd. Traveler. Vintage advertising enthusiast. Hat wearer.

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